Lessons from the Lobby
Every day, front desk customer service begins long before a customer reaches the service desk. On my first day as a security guard, I learned that excellent front desk customer service isn’t just about following procedures—it’s about helping people understand them. This is the first story in my From My Corner series, where I share real customer service lessons from the lobby.
From My Corner – Where the Lobby Becomes a Classroom
The customer stood quietly at the cubicle.
On the other side of the desk, the customer service agent listened attentively, asked a few questions, and typed into the computer. From where I stood, I could only hear parts of the conversation.
The customer wanted to add a spouse so they could access healthcare.
After a few moments, the agent looked up and simply said,
“Go and get an affidavit.”
Then she turned her attention back to her screen.
Instead of leaving immediately, the customer remained standing.
She looked confused.
She shifted her weight from one foot to the other, almost expecting another sentence that never came.
What affidavit?
Where do I get one?
What should it say?
How long will it take?
Will I come back today or another day?
Although those questions were written all over her face, none of them were answered.
The conversation was over.
Or at least the agent believed it was.
As a result, the customer slowly walked away from the desk looking completely lost.
That moment has stayed with me ever since because, while I knew almost nothing about the job, I knew enough to recognize that something had gone wrong.
It wasn’t the requirement that troubled me.
Rather, it was the way the conversation ended.
At that moment, I realized something that has stayed with me ever since: great front desk customer service isn’t only about knowing the process. It’s about making sure customers understand it.
Looking back, I didn’t know it then, but that brief interaction would become my very first lesson in customer service.
My First Day in Uniform
At the time, it was my very first day working as a security guard.
To say I was overwhelmed would be an understatement.
I didn’t know the systems.
I didn’t know the procedures.
I didn’t know the documents customers were required to bring.
In fact, I was still trying to understand the workplace itself—learning who worked where, how the office operated, and even remembering people’s names.
Every face was new.
Every conversation taught me something.
Every hour felt like another lesson.
To be honest, I felt completely out of my depth.
This wasn’t where I had imagined I would be at this stage of my life.
Like many people, I had dreams of how my career would unfold.
However, life had other plans.
It had humbled me.
It had closed some doors and quietly opened another.
That door led me to a security uniform.
Although it wasn’t the path I had planned, I chose to embrace the opportunity before me.
During those first few weeks, I would occasionally hear someone call out,
“Soldier!”
Every single time, I flinched.
Not because there was anything wrong with the name.
Rather, I was still coming to terms with where life had brought me.
I was adjusting—not only to a new job, but also to a new chapter in my life.
Looking back now, I smile because I can see what I couldn’t see then.
This role wasn’t taking me away from my purpose.
It was leading me back to it.
No matter the title I’ve held over the years, I always seem to find myself working with people.
As a cashier, I learned that patience matters.
As a receptionist, I learned that first impressions matter.
In customer care, I learned that listening matters.
Now, as a security guard, I was about to discover that observation matters just as much.
Different uniforms.
Different responsibilities.
The same human experiences.
And perhaps that is why this job has become one of my greatest teachers.
Because every day, I stand where every customer’s journey begins.
Before they reach the reception desk…
Before they sit in front of an officer…
Before they receive a service…
They pass by me.
And without realizing it, they leave me with a story.
Why I Started “From My Corner”
This article is the first in a series I call From My Corner.
It is a collection of real stories, observations, and customer service lessons gathered from where I stand every day.
People see a security guard.
However, I see something different.
I see a front-row seat to human behaviour.
I see moments that reveal the best—and sometimes the worst—of customer service.
Most importantly, I see opportunities to learn.
Because the lobby has become more than my workplace.
It has become my classroom.
The Lobby Became My Classroom
Over time, something began to change.
I stopped seeing the lobby as simply the place where I worked.
Instead, I started seeing it as a classroom.
Every customer who walked through the door brought a new lesson.
Some arrived smiling because they knew exactly what they needed.
Others walked in carrying worry on their faces, unsure where to begin.
Some had visited several offices before reaching ours and were already frustrated.
Meanwhile, others simply needed someone to point them in the right direction.
Every day reminded me that customers don’t leave their emotions at the door.
They bring their fears.
They bring their expectations.
They bring their urgency.
Sometimes, they even bring disappointment from experiences they’ve had elsewhere.
Because of this, I learned that every interaction matters, no matter how brief it may seem.
People often see a security guard standing at the entrance.
However, I see something different.
I see the beginning of every customer’s journey.
Before they reach the service desk, they’ve already met me.
I’ve welcomed them.
I’ve answered simple questions.
I’ve directed them to the correct office.
I’ve watched their expressions change from uncertainty to relief when someone takes the time to help them.
Unfortunately, I’ve also watched confusion grow when communication falls short.
That’s why I often say:
The lobby is my classroom. Every customer teaches me something new.
The more I observed, the more I realized something important.
Customer service doesn’t only happen behind the desk.
Sometimes it happens in the hallway.
Sometimes at the entrance.
Sometimes through a simple smile.
Sometimes through clear directions.
And sometimes through a stranger willing to help another stranger.
That realization changed the way I viewed my own role.
Although my job was security, I understood that I was also part of the customer’s experience.
Every greeting mattered.
Every direction mattered.
Every interaction mattered.
After all, customers don’t separate people by departments.
To them, everyone wearing the organization’s uniform represents the organization itself.
That was a lesson no training manual had taught me.
The Lesson That Needed No Training
Of course, on that first day, I didn’t understand the healthcare registration process.
I couldn’t explain why an affidavit was required.
I didn’t know where someone could obtain one.
Nor did I know what information it needed to contain.
So I couldn’t step in to help.
I simply stood there watching the customer walk away looking defeated.
Then, something unexpected happened.
Another customer noticed the confusion.
Without being asked, they walked over and quietly said,
“I know where you can get the affidavit.”
They explained where to go.
They explained why it was needed.
They explained what the customer should do next.
Almost immediately, everything changed.
The worried expression disappeared.
The customer smiled.
They thanked the stranger and confidently walked away.
I remember standing there thinking,
Why couldn’t that explanation have come from us?
The more I reflected on that moment, the clearer the lesson became.
The affidavit wasn’t the problem.
The policy wasn’t the problem.
Even asking for additional documents wasn’t the problem.
Rather, the missing explanation was the problem.
That experience taught me something I have carried with me ever since.
Customers are often willing to follow a process.
What they struggle with is not understanding the process.
When we explain what they need but fail to explain why they need it or what happens next, we unintentionally leave them feeling abandoned.
As a result, they leave with uncertainty instead of confidence.
Sometimes they blame the organization.
Sometimes they blame the employee.
Sometimes they blame the entire system.
Yet the issue could have been solved with just a few extra moments of conversation.
Perhaps the agent was busy.
Perhaps they had already explained the process dozens of times that day.
Perhaps they assumed the customer already understood.
We all make assumptions when we’ve performed the same task repeatedly.
However, customers are experiencing that process for the first time.
What feels routine to us may be completely unfamiliar to them.
That is why empathy is just as important as efficiency.
Great customer service isn’t measured by how quickly we finish a conversation.
It’s measured by whether the customer leaves knowing exactly what to do next.
Looking back, I often think about that first customer.
I don’t remember their name.
I don’t know whether they ever came back.
But I do remember how they looked when they walked away from the desk.
Confused.
Uncertain.
Almost defeated.
Then I remember how their face changed after someone took a few minutes to explain the process.
That transformation reminded me of something simple yet powerful.
Sometimes the greatest service we can offer isn’t solving the customer’s problem immediately.
Sometimes it’s giving them enough information to take the next step with confidence.
Front Desk Customer Service Is About More Than Policies
That first day taught me a lesson I have never forgotten.
Great front desk customer service is about more than following policies—it is about helping people understand them.
Over the months, I have watched hundreds of customers walk through the doors.
Some arrive well prepared.
Others arrive with incomplete information.
Some know exactly what they need.
Others are taking the first step in a process they have never experienced before.
Because of this, every customer deserves more than an answer.
They deserve guidance.
Customers rarely become frustrated because they are asked to provide another document.
Most people understand that organizations have procedures and legal requirements.
However, frustration often begins when customers leave without understanding the next step.
Imagine being told to “go and get an affidavit” when you’ve never needed one before.
Where do you go?
Who prepares it?
How much does it cost?
Can you return the same day?
Will there be another queue?
Those questions may seem obvious to the employee who has answered them hundreds of times.
Yet, for the customer, they are brand new.
That is why clear communication is one of the most valuable customer service skills any organization can develop.
Every explanation builds confidence.
Every unanswered question creates uncertainty.
As a result, communication becomes just as important as the service itself.
In my experience, customers don’t always expect an immediate solution.
More often, they simply want someone to help them understand what comes next.
Sometimes, the difference between a satisfied customer and a frustrated one is not the policy.
It is the conversation.
Five Things We Should Never Do to a Customer
Looking back on that experience, I often ask myself what every organization can learn from it.
These are five simple lessons that have stayed with me.
1. Never Assume Customers Understand Your Process
What seems routine to you may be completely new to the person standing in front of you.
Instead of assuming, take a moment to explain the process clearly.
One extra minute today can save your customer hours of confusion tomorrow.
2. Never Use Technical Terms Without Explaining Them
Words such as affidavit, verification, compliance, or approval may be part of your daily vocabulary.
However, customers may be hearing those words for the very first time.
Simple language builds understanding.
Understanding builds confidence.
Confidence builds trust.
3. Never Rush Someone Who Is Already Confused
Customers who hesitate are not necessarily wasting your time.
More often, they are trying to process the information you’ve given them.
Therefore, allow them a moment to ask questions.
Sometimes the question they are afraid to ask is the one that matters most.
4. Never End the Conversation Before Confirming Understanding
One of the simplest customer service questions is also one of the most powerful:
“Is there anything you’d like me to clarify before you go?”
That single question tells the customer you care about their success—not just completing the transaction.
In addition, it prevents unnecessary return visits caused by misunderstandings.
5. Never Forget That Customers Remember How You Made Them Feel
Customers may eventually forget the forms they filled in.
They may even forget the waiting time.
What they rarely forget is how they were treated.
Did someone listen?
Did someone smile?
Did someone explain patiently?
Did someone make them feel respected?
Those moments stay with people long after the visit is over.
That, to me, is the heart of excellent customer service.
A Small Conversation Can Change the Entire Experience
One thing I continue to observe from my corner is this:
Small conversations create big differences.
A smile can reduce anxiety.
A greeting can make someone feel welcome.
Clear directions can save hours of frustration.
Likewise, a few extra words of explanation can completely change how customers feel about an organization.
Sometimes we focus so much on completing the transaction that we forget the person standing in front of us.
After all, customers are not simply looking for a service.
They are looking for reassurance.
They want to know they are in the right place.
They want to know someone is listening.
Most importantly, they want to leave feeling more informed than when they arrived.
Every day in the lobby reminds me that great customer service is rarely about dramatic gestures.
More often, it is found in ordinary moments.
A warm greeting.
A patient explanation.
A willingness to answer one more question.
Those are the moments customers remember.
And those are the moments that shape an organization’s reputation far more than we sometimes realize.
Customer Service Starts Before the Desk
Looking back, one of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is this:
Customer service begins long before a customer sits in front of an agent.
It begins at the gate.
It begins with the security guard.
It begins with the receptionist.
It begins with the cleaner who points someone to the correct office.
It begins with every employee who chooses to treat another person with patience and respect.
Ultimately, every interaction shapes the customer’s experience.
By the time customers reach the service desk, they have already formed an impression of your organization.
Perhaps someone greeted them warmly.
Perhaps someone ignored them.
Perhaps someone smiled.
Or perhaps someone took a few extra seconds to explain where they needed to go.
Those moments matter.
In fact, they often determine how customers remember the entire experience.
That is why I believe every employee contributes to customer service, whether or not customer service appears in their job title.
Every conversation is an opportunity to build trust.
Every interaction is an opportunity to reduce anxiety.
Every explanation is an opportunity to create confidence.
And every act of kindness becomes part of your organization’s reputation.
As the Institute of Customer Service explains, excellent service is built on understanding customers’ needs, communicating clearly, and creating positive experiences at every stage of the customer journey.
Learn more here:
https://www.instituteofcustomerservice.com/
Likewise, Harvard Business Review has published numerous articles showing that customer experience is shaped by every interaction, not simply the final transaction.
Explore more:
https://hbr.org/topic/customer-experience
Those ideas resonate with me because they reflect what I witness every single day from my corner in the lobby.
From My Corner
This is why I started writing From My Corner.
Every day, from where I stand, I witness customer service unfold.
Some moments make me smile.
Some leave me asking difficult questions.
Others remind me that the smallest acts of kindness often leave the biggest impression.
Standing in the lobby has taught me that customers don’t always expect miracles.
More often, they simply need someone to slow down.
Someone to explain the next step.
Someone to answer one more question.
Someone to remind them they aren’t walking the journey alone.
Looking back, I no longer see my security uniform the same way I did on my first day.
Back then, I thought it represented a detour in my career.
Today, I see it differently.
It has given me a front-row seat to human behaviour.
It has reminded me that every role has dignity.
More importantly, it has shown me that every position offers an opportunity to serve people well.
People may see a security guard.
However, from my corner, I see stories.
Stories of patience.
Stories of confusion.
Stories of kindness.
Stories of people helping one another.
Stories of employees who go the extra mile.
Stories of customers who simply needed someone to listen.
Above all, I see opportunities for businesses to improve the customer experience one conversation at a time.
That is why I write.
Because every story carries a lesson.
And every lesson is another opportunity to build workplaces where customers feel heard, respected, and valued.
This is only the beginning.
There are many more stories waiting to be told.
Continue the Conversation
Have you ever left a service desk feeling confused because no one explained the next step?
Or perhaps you’ve experienced exceptional customer service that stayed with you long after the visit.
I’d love to hear your story.
Share it in the comments below, and let’s learn from one another.
Continue Reading
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📖 Finding My Voice: My Blogging Journey – The personal story behind why I started writing and sharing these reflections.
https://lobbyreflections.co.ke/2026/05/23/finding-my-voice-blogging-journey/
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